O Brother, O Brother

The #1 question people still ask is if Kai likes his little sister....Like? Naw. Kai is completely in love with Ruby June. He snuggles her, "babysits" her, tries to make her laugh, and holds her whenever he can. Kai is also very loud and I think that Ruby must get so tired of it. But, just when I am thinking that I feel so sorry for Ruby because her brother is just too loud or too in her face, she lets me know she doesn't agree. He might be yelling, but she is laughing at him and smiling and tracking his every move. She also is trying to move and is rolling and is desperately trying to sit up more on her own. I think it's because she wants to follow her big brother and see what trouble he is going to get in next!

P.S. Yes, that shirt is so cute-- Aunt Christy sent it to Ruby and it says, "Surrender the Booby."

Where does God live?

Kai had a lot of questions for me the other morning over breakfast. A little background: we have a blue, shiny, pretty paperweight (more like a sparkly globe) in the middle of our table that used to be my Nonny's. Just a few minutes after she died, I grabbed this paperweight and stuck it in my purse. I figured no one would notice. Well, Kai did and he has loved it. We move it from room to room often.

As we were eating, he asked me if God lived in the globe. Then, he went on to ask if God was a man or woman. Next, he asked if he could go and visit God and find out if God was a real person. I tried to answer the best I could...but, I wanted to tell him that these are the sort of questions that people have been trying to answer for ages. He looked at me completely perplexed when I told him that I thought God lived everywhere and that God is a man and a woman (say what, vern?). He asked if everyone thought the same way I did (No!)

Our conversation left me smiling since it has been fun the past year or so having conversations that actually mean something...Kai is a pretty amazing kid.

Quiz

So, can you guess who is who? (Kai or Ruby) Both are photos of their first smiles. It seems so obvious to me, but so many people have mentioned how similar they look. Shoot, after posting this, I realized one of the photos has pink. Darn pink-- a total giveaway. But, do you think they look similar?

3 months

Happy 3 months Ruby! You have grown so much. You love to smile and laugh. Plus, you "talk" constantly and love it when we talk back with you. If a stranger says hello to you at a store, you give them a huge grin and start jumping up and down in excitement.

You are almost 14 lbs. and are sometimes too tall for your 3-6 months clothes. You like to sleep at home in your crib (so different from your older brother who preferred our bed) and you are a rock star sleeper and sleep at night almost 8 or 9 hours (again, so different from Kai who didn't sleep this long of a stretch until he was 2 years old!). You are patient. You are happy. And, you love your big brother. You even like it when he hugs you a little too tight or wraps his body over you (with me saying, "Kai, give your sister a little space," over and over again).

You have just started to figure out the bottle, so for the first time you've been away from me for more than a little bit. Up until this point, you've come with me to work and we joke that you are the only 3 month old who has attended more than 7 weddings!

As you can tell from this photo, you love being with your Papi. You enjoy early morning runs with him in the stroller and being in a sling with him while he makes dinner.

I've started to work part-time on Tuesdays and Thursdays and your Nonny is caring for you now that she has retired (after 39 years of teaching!). You don't know it yet, but you have the best babysitter in the world.

Summer

Summer is Here! We kicked off the summer with an end-of-the-year Slip and Slide party. Here is Kai enjoying his most favorite perks of summer: popsicles and friends (his buddy Walter)Then, we headed to my 15 year college reunion in Grinnell, Iowa. It was a wonderful weekend: complete with friends, laughter, pizza, and hanging out and doing nothing! But, the bummer was how long it took us to get there. It's suppose to take 4 1/2 hours to drive to Grinnell, but took us over 8 hours each way. It seems Ruby June is not a fan of the car! Here are some photos at one of our many breaks: Kai is enjoying the tractor and I'm trying to calm Ms. Ruby down.

Finally, the "brothers" came to town! We went on a road trip last summer to Michigan to visit the Davis Family. After a week of excitement, Kai told me he had three new brothers. He continues to tell everyone that he has one sister (Ruby) and three brothers (Reese, Luke, and Baby Gabe). We had a picnic on Memorial Day to enjoy some good "family" time together!

Bailey

So, lucky us...we've had almost 40 days of help!! I tell you, this is the rock-star way to have a baby! We have felt so much love.

Bailey came and stayed with us for 10 days (Reba, who I wrote about earlier, is her sister and equally as incredible) and we had a wonderful visit with her. She helped me through two weddings (I have coordinated a wedding almost every weekend since Ruby has been born and I've had Ruby with me, along with a helper), folded laundry, made lunches, played with Kai, and cared for Ruby June. All of the help was incredible, but the real joy for me was getting to know Bailey better. She is 15 years old and such a wonderfully smart, loving, and strong woman. WE spent all week trying to convince her to move out here with us for the summer!

Happy (Ruby) June!